Just The Way You Are — Take The Time!

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I have shared before how special this song is to me. I made the last chorus of this song a ringer for Lucenda’s phone. Only when I called her phone, it would play. I would leave notes all over the place telling Lucenda how beautiful she was, how much I loved her, how special she was, how important she was. When this song came out, it was … in essence … a culmination of the years of notes I had left for her (but sung by someone with talent).

Today, I was listening to it again as I was standing in my kitchen. I thought of something different this time. I knew that I needed to type these thoughts for others to see.

We do not know when our time on this earth will end. We do not know if today is our last chance to BE a light to someone.

Take the time to find the positives. Take the time to be encouraging. Take the time to be a friend. Take the time to be a helper. Take the time to be a listener. Take the time to BE POSITIVE. Take the time to be SELFLESS.

Your words could very well be the last words someone may ever hear on this earth. Choose wisely what you say.

A Traumatic Detour

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You are driving down the highway. You are sailing along on your way to something you just can’t miss. Music playing on the radio. You are singing along. Life is good.

Suddenly, you react before you even realize what is happening. There is an accident happening just up the highway in front of you. You are looking all around to avoid being hit as you slam on your brakes. You come to a sudden stop. Your coffee landed in the floorboard. The cars behind you managed to stop without any more “accidents” happening.

You, along with other drivers, jump out and run to see if there are survivors to be helped. There is a person laying in a pool of blood at the edge of the road. They must have been thrown from the vehicle. There is evidence of a large animal in a mangled mass on the road. You see antlers, it must be a deer. There are now 7 or more people around you and the driver. One person pushes forward saying they are a doctor. You hear crying. More than one person is on the phone calling this in.

After 2 hours, you are back in your vehicle, driving to … where are you going? You can’t go to work like this. OH NO! WORK! You immediately call your boss to tell them what just happened. Your boss tells you to go home and take the day to rest and recover. You are in a daze. You are in the parking lot of a gas station, in your car, covered in blood. You snap out of it and drive home.

You get home, you throw the bloody clothes in a pile. You take a long shower. You feel like you cannot get the blood off. You are thinking now of what you saw. The blood. That person. How are they doing? Will they survive? That is going to be one crazy insurance claim for them to report. What are the odds of a doctor being behind you? What if that deer waited a moment? Would you be the one to have …. Would it have been me? I missed work. My sick days are limited. I had the report to finish. This is really going to mess things up at work. We are already shorthanded. I hope I can get the blood out of that shirt. That was my favorite shirt. The water is cold. I have it on HOT. How long have I been standing here?

Traumatic things happen in our lives. No matter how hard we try to convince ourselves of the contrary, we most often, NOT prepared for tragedy. It comes at us, often, out of “nowhere” as it were. Some tragedies are extremely overwhelming. Loss of a job, weather disasters, death of a loved one.

That day of the accident on the highway was traumatic. It disrupted your routine. It brought about unsettling feelings. It led to horrible nightmares. What you did not know … a mile down the highway from where the accident took place was a bridge you have crossed numerous times going to and from work each day. That day, just moments after the accident you encountered, a section of that bridge you would have crossed collapsed onto the road below it. No lives were lost from it.

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